Behind You, Dad

Behind You, Dad by Maxwell Mkoki is a moving reflection on the immigrant experience, framed through intimate father-son conversations. Written nearly twenty years after Mkoki’s migration from Zimbabwe to New Zealand, this book centres on a deeply personal dialogue between a father and his adult son, who seeks to understand the journey that brought their family to a new land.

Through these conversations, Mkoki unpacks the challenges and triumphs of starting over in a foreign country, highlighting themes of perseverance, sacrifice, and cultural adjustment. At its core, Behind You, Dad explores the significance of strong family bonds, particularly between parents and children, as they navigate the trials of a new life. Mkoki draws on his lived experience, offering practical wisdom and strategies for immigrant families seeking to thrive in new environments, while promoting the values of respect, compassion, and togetherness.


The book’s conversational style invites readers into the heart of a father-son relationship, resonating with migrant families and readers globally. It also reflects on the broader immigrant experience, making it a universally understood narrative for that community. Mkoki’s reflective storytelling, shaped by his African roots and his life in New Zealand, makes Behind You, Dad an inspiring and thought-provoking read for anyone interested in personal growth, family dynamics, and the immigrant journey.